“I really like porno movies!” is a statement you probably won’t hear from most women.
This is largely due to assumption that we females are less inclined to be driven by our primal urges and thus have no need for such stimulation. Truth be told, this is a huge fallacy. Women obsess about sex as much as the next guy! Our fantasies lean towards erotica, where tales of men with rippling biceps end with us sorta trying to resist, to no avail.
While I am a woman and I have had those types of fantasies, I also like to cut to the chase; this is why I am one of those rare few that will utter the above statement without shame. You see, it is my opinion that men and women alike are voyeurs at heart. Although ladies might hesitate to admit it, a good porno film tends to get us as hot as any romance novel.
Call me kinky, but I tend to prefer amateur porn. Like an independent film, amateur porn is far grittier and raw, therefore, more real. It is like getting permission to peep inside a window to glimpse the forbidden—the bedroom of the girl next door—the schoolteacher—the pastor’s wife—the hot, but supposedly frigid librarian.
But this fact begs the question—why are men the main purveyors of porn in the first place? As a females who does webcam chat I can easily answer that question. There is just something about femininity, and possessing it, that is especially arousing to a male. Couple this with the fact that men are essentially visual, highly sensual creatures and you have before you an instant billion-dollar industry; just add water. What I find most interesting about my penchant to indulge a naughty video or to play on my webcam, is that many of the men I dated loved the idea that I was so open minded in this regard. So much so, that they thought I would love a constant porno fest every time I wanted to get it on or that every time they messaged me I would put on a sex show on my webcam for them.
As you should know by now, I am still a woman—there is a time for a fast food burger, and another for a full four-course meal! 
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